Monday, 17 August 2015

CONTINUATION: My Shocking Encounter With A Guy Who Slept With 20 Ladies At 30!! You Won't Believe Your Eyes!


Remember this post? I promised to post the concluding interview few weeks ago, but I was unable to do that. I always keep to my word. So, I'm apologizing for posting this late. I'm very sorry. I really don't have any excuse for not posting it as at the time I promised because this is what I signed up for, but please try and understand with me that it's not that easy to transcribe from a voice recording, listen carefully to every word, re-typed what you heard and listen again.

The rest of the interview is a little bit long and to transcribe it is something else. Please just bear with me. Here's the rest of the interview as promised and I'll start from where I stopped.

In case you want to go over the previous interview, just click HERE to catch up... worth reading!!!

Q: So, what makes you think your sisters will never fall victim to a guy like you
A: Just one reason. Because they are virgins. As of the last time I saw them, they were virgins.

Q: How do you know they are virgins?
A: I thought you said in one of your blog posts that sleeping with a guy has a way of showing on your face. Little did you know that you're very correct. I've slept with many ladies, 6 of which were virgins. So I saw the general changes few days after I slept with them. All the things you said in that your blog post are the ways to know.

Q: Are you telling me that not sleeping with a guy is how your sisters protect themselves from guys like you?
A: Ha, Tessy. You know how to get what you want. Yes, that's the only way they knew


Q: Tell me about the last girl you slept with?
A: Slept with or dated?

Q: Ok, sorry, dated?
A: Ah, the last girl I dated was the toughest, smartest and most intelligent lady I've ever met. That's why it took me like 6 months to crack her open. She gave a really tough time, but I eventually have my way with her. She gave up willingly. If you disturb and pester girls very well and in a smart way, it might take time, but they will always come around.

Q: And after that? I mean after you had sex with her?
A: I still continue to have sex with her until I've had enough. I dated her for like a year and half. The first sex is the most difficult, but after you successfully have sex with her that first time, the second one is easy and the third and so are the rest because all her 'shakara' would have come down after the first round.

Q: How are you so sure about that?
A: See, a girl can only do 'shakara' if you have not slept with her. Her pride will be like nothing you ever seen. In that moment, she's the queen of queens, but the moment you take her to bed, strip her naked and touch all the 'touchables', she will feel ashamed to do anymore 'shakara' because there's no more 'shakara' left for her to do that will make any difference compare to what you have seen, touch and tasted! (He chuckled)

The truth is, I've seen it all. I've touched it all. I've tasted it all. There's nothing left.

That's why if you see a girl doing 'yanga' to her boyfriend just know what the guy has not seen the color of her pant. Trust me on this one. It's after the first sex that you'll start seeing some girls watching their backs. They got so serious about the relationship because they are now vulnerable with fear that if I break up with her tomorrow I'll forever live with the memory of what I've seen down there and she will feel stupid and afraid. She will feel stupid to have shown me everything.

Q: You're so sure she will feel stupid. Well, I kind of disagree with you. Some girls sees it as a mistake and move on.
A: Tessy, you're not me, I mean us (guys) and even if the guys on your blog are reading this they will know I'm telling the truth and that is if they've slept with more than one girl because all these girls always feel stupid and always feel they are careless after the first three sex, most especially the first sex. They will tell you it will never happen again and after the second one happened, they will feel stupid the more. The truth is, most of them always put on bold face when they get up from my bed like 'what's there', but not all of them are that bold! You know what I mean. It makes me remember Yinka (her real name). She cried very hard and for a very long time when I took her virginity.

Q: Yinka, is that her real name?
A: Yes, that's her real name. I won't tell you her other name.

Q: And I take that to be your ex-Girlfriend Number 2?
A: No, she's the 6th girl I slept with. Have you deleted those photos I sent to you as promised.

Yes, I told you I'm an honest person. I deleted them the moment you asked me to delete them. I have no need of keeping them since I can't post them.

Ok, thanks.

Q: So how do you feel after sleeping with them?
Feel? I feel myself. Like every other guy, we feel like a man. How else do you want us to feel?

Q: I'm thinking you should at least feel sorry for them.
A: Oh, that's what you're saying. I don't usually feel sorry, but I have to look sorry for them. I have to put on a sorry face after I got up from her so that it will be easy to ask for sex next time. These girls are all church girls so I expect them to feel that some part of them has gone. Like one of the girls said, the Holy Spirit has left her. I kind of pray with her that day sha, but the moment I see her to the bus stop and return home, I jumped on my bed and screamed like a man.

Q: And how should a man feel after having sex with a girl he's not married to?
A: Ha Tessy, you are very funny. Do you know how you feel when you've been waiting to eat a particular food. You have been waiting and waiting and the food has been 'hungrying' you. You've controlled yourself not to jump the rope and the girl had dangle it in your face for like four months. Then one day they gave it to you without any marital commitment. Omo, you'll eat and devour her like vampire!!! (He chuckled)

Q: I'm thinking sometimes, you do feel sorry for these girls, but you just don't care because...

A: (He interrupted) Oh, Tessy, you're making me feel sorry already. See, the truth is, yes, I feel sorry for them, but not the way you're thinking it. I feel sorry that they thought I'll marry them and that they are chasing a shadow. I feel sorry for the guy they will marry tomorrow and I feel sorry for them on how they will tell him how they carelessly give me their bodies. Aside that, I don't feel more than that.

Q: Are you dating anymore at the moment?
A: Yes, I can't stay without dating a girl. I don't double-date, but I always have a girl with me.

Q: What's her name? Just her first name?
A: Is that necessary?

Q: No, you can ignore that. I just want to see if I can get personal with these girls without knowing them one-on-one. You may choose not to answer that so let's move on to my next question.
A: (He interrupted) Tolani. Her name is Tolani (her real name).

Q: How did you meet her?
A: She's the daughter of the Pastor where I was invited to beat drum for them. Their drummer was out of town so they needed someone to stand in for him. They were having a special programme that day so I was called to play for them. She was there sitting in the front and I like her immediately. She's all I ever dream of in a woman. She's slim, gorgeous and she's ravishingly beautiful. I love her instantly.

Q: You're not afraid that as the daugther of a pastor, she will be impossible to sleep with
A: (He laughed so loud) Tessy, you're very funny. As long as she's not a lesbian, I'll surely get her and when I get her to bed, I'll let ...
you know. I promise. These girls are all the same and I know how to play my game. You'll see.

Q: Since she's a pastor's girl and she's all you need in a woman, is there any way you can change your mind and marry her?
A: I thought I've told you when we started chatting. I never intend to marry anyone right now. I can't see myself settling down in the next five years self. I just want to be catching fun till I reach the age I want to settle down. You don't expect me to just live a boring life all the while now and before then any girl goes!

Q: Will you tell her you are not ready to settle down?
A: You know I can't Tessy. I'm only telling you because of this interview. To her, I'm ready to marry her like tomorrow and that's the same thing I'll tell her mother or father if I eventually meet them. To her, she's so sure I'm crazy about her, but no, am not.

Q: Have you slept with her?
A: I just met her last month. It's not that fast now. See Tessy o. When I don't have jaz or I'm not hypnotizing them. It's take time and process and a special kind of format if you know what I mean.

Q: But you intend to sleep with her anytime from now, right?
A: You already know the answer to that.

Q: How long does it normally take for you to convince these girls to sleep with you.
That depends on each girl. It depends on what they have in their brain and what sex-educator feed to them.

Q: Do you really like this current girl?
A: Hmnnnn.. kind of. She's a very descent girl. She's a virgin. She's studied abroad and she's very disciplined. You won't know she's a rich girl, but she has taste for fashion and I kind of like that in her. She's open to everyone and she's approachable. Her father is a disciplinary and that's the more reason why my job will be very easy.

Q: So how do you plan to sleep with her? Don't you think she's going to prove difficult?
A: Oh, forget that. She's going to be very easy like any other girl I've slept with, but I'll spare you the details till I've slept with her. I know your type. You'll google all the pastor's daughter on my Facebook's friend's list and start preaching sex to her. I'm not taking any chances. By the time I'm through with her, I'll grant you another interview. I promise. For now, that's all I can tell you about her. No more question about her.

Q: Okay o, so when did you start sleeping with girls? I'm sure you didn't just wake up one day and decide to start picking girls and dropping them. What changed? What makes you change from who you are to what you've become.
A: I've not become anything different to what I was meant to be.

Q: Then what happen to make you decide to start sleeping with girls just for the fun of it.
A: Nothing in particular happened. I didn't even decide it. It just started like every other guy. Like any other guy out there I kind of realized it. See, the first girl I dated was Ugo. I was out to marry her. I was sincere and she was the only girl I've ever being sincere with. I was very young then and my plan and feeling for her were genuine. I planned to marry her and my plan was to keep her for as long I can start working for money to marry her. To let her know how serious I was, I took her to my parent.

Q: Then what changed?
A: Like I said, nothing in particular happened. I kind of find myself doing it and when I was enjoying it and getting away with it, I felt I should continue till I reach the age I now plan to settle down. Back then, I thought I can't leave Ugo, but when I discovered I can leave any girl so far we are not married and get away with it.... I think that was what changed. Let's just say my plans for her shifted or started to shift when we had the first sex. Maybe not really when we had the first sex, but when I began to imagine how sex will feel like with another coursemate of mine who happened to be the second girl I dated.

See, it's not entirely our fault. The problem with this girl is that they always think we are blind or some kind of robot because they have given us sex we won't or shouldn't want to see how that same sex will look like with another yellow-skinned girl or fat one at that if they are slim. So it started from there. Ugo was slim then, but when I watched a film where a guy had sex with a moderately fat lady, I kind of what some of that feeling. I was curious to know what it feels hence my feelings for the second girl. I started to want more from sex, but not just with the same person or same kind of body that has been giving me free of charge. It's not only me. All guys always feel this way after some time. In most cases, the feelings started coming after the 3rd or 5th sex, but the girl will never know that something is changing because we will still be nice and caring to them. It happens in marriage also, but you won't believe me since I'm not married.

Me: No, go on. I want to hear your opinion about sex within marriage.

See, I've come to realize that marriage is not just for the two people to come and live together. No, two people can live together without being married. Marriage is meant to keep the two people from doing some other thing that they will soon begin to feel after first year of marriage. Marriage commitment is actually instituted for guys, not ladies because that is the only thing that stops most of us from stopping by in a hotel to have a feel of a different girl.

So imagine in the absence of any marriage commitment and all you have are the usual flimsy marriage promise we make to you which is not as binding as we make you believe, we feel free to explore other options. Any married guy will agree with me that it's after we've had sex with our girl that the temptation to look at other girls will begin to set in and it's after that first sex that girls will begin to feel insecure and jealous.

Tessy, mark my word and read my lips, the truth is, no guy will look at another girl or left you for another girl or breakup with you for any reason whatsoever if he has not slept with you. Quote me anywhere, Tessy, but that's the universal truth and it's been the truth from the beginning of time. But your girls have fish brain because by the time I let them see that I'm dead serious about marrying them they forget what you taught them about love and sex. If you ask them they will argue with you that the very guy they are dating right now is different from people like me, but all guys are like me until they've married you.

Even a girl that will read this interview on your blog is presently courting or dating a guy that she trust will marry her like tomorrow. We all have the same desire even after we marry you, but it's safe to keep yourself within marriage serious commitment not just a mere promise!

Q: (I let out a deep sigh) Do you by any means know if any of these girls are married?
A: Oh yes, I know about three of them.

Q: Did you attend there weddings?
A: Hmnnn... I attend the first one I heard about and after that I stopped attending their weddings. But I heard three of them are married now.

Q: Why did you stop?
A: It's kind of personal if you don't mind.

Q: Sorry about that, I won't push my luck on that one, but how do you feel knowing you slept with the bride everyone is celebrating?
A: You're still asking the same question, Tessy. (He was quite)

Q: Do you still talk to any of them after they are married?
A: No. As in yes, I chat with one on Facebook and ever since then I stopped talking to her.

Q: See, Charles (not his real name), I understand how you feel seeing the girl you love marrying another man and you wish you are the one...
A: (He interrupted) Is that what you think? Is that why you think I don't want to answer you? No, it's more personal than that. Ok, I'll tell you just a little about it. (He paused for a very long time) A friend of mine told me one of my ex-girl is getting married. I was like, 'wow, she's getting married' and out of curiosity to see who she married and to see her again after a very long time, I decided to attend the wedding. I tried to call her, but she wouldn't pick my call. I sent her text messages she didn't reply. That was another why I attended her wedding.

She was shocked to see me at the church that day. I saw the shock registered on her face. Her mouth dropped open and she almost covered them with her hands. The flower in her hand fell off at the sight of me and...


*Sorry guys, that's all I can transcribe for now. I still have like 39 minutes interview to type out and I'm tired. It's tiresome to listen to a recorded conversation, type what you heard on the computer. Listen again, paused the record and type the small you heard. Then while you're trying to type the small you heard, you forgot a particular phrase and you have to replay and listen again.

I'll continue some other time, but I can't promise. What I can promise is that I'll upload the concluding part before the end of August.


Trust me, nothing will prepare you for what I did to this guy. I questioned him into tears. As you can see, towards the end of our discussion, he was feeling dull and quite. As an experienced counselor, I ceased the opportunity and did the unthinkable.

22 comments:

Simply Grace said...

Tessy, this is too-derful. Bless your wisdom

Cynthia Okolie said...

I printed 50 copies of this interview and I gave it to all my friends in school. They all loved it. This is the best interview ever.

Anonymous said...

Thanks for extracting this interview for us. I'm really really blessed.

Anonymous said...

Reading this interview almost made me feel I was one of the girls this guy slept with cos that was exactly what happened to me.

Chichi said...

Can you imagine these our so called guys? may God help us ladies

El-Shaddai said...

Pls can a lady summarize this interview for me plss. It's damn too long

Kate Davies said...

Haaaaaa.. ladies don suffer for guys hand oooo.

Anonymous said...

Is tis interogation, confession or interivew. The guy was more or less confessing to her.

Simply Grace said...

May God forgive this promiscous guy. He has hurt many ladies in his small lifetime

Richy said...

Why did you stop now????? I want to know what happen at the wedding ooooooo.


This is nice

Godspower said...

One word, Tessy. CAPTIVATING! REVEALING! EXPOSITORY! POWERFUL!


WOW!!!!!!!

Simply Grace said...

He has said it all girls. What more do you want to hear that this guy has not revealed. She who has ears let her hear what these guys are doing to us.

Anonymous said...

He's right. Girls have fish brains and snail emotions.

Chidi_eze@yahoo.com said...

Please Tessy, you forgot to ask him if any of the girls got pregnat for him and if he made them abort it.

Pius said...

I think I know tis guy. He lives opposite the house adjacent to the house behind the back of our church. Meaning this type of guys are every in the church! BE WARNED!

Anonymous said...

I hope he's using condom. You better advice him to go for HIV test ASAP

Nwosu O.O said...

Tessy darling, the way you ended this is too suspenseful. Pls you said before the end of God. Keep to your promise this time biko

Mrs Anyawun Ogboso said...

My daughter actually pointed my attention to this your blog post and I love the work you're doing. I read the interview from start to finish and you did a great job asking the guy those questions. Holy Spirit must have ministered to him to expose himself. May God continue to protect our girl-child.

Pls I need to know what happen at the wedding.

Anonymous said...

Wow. I totally in love with this interview.

Yemi Filani said...

And you're telling us that this guy said all this things by just asking him. Are you sure you didnt' not jaz him or hypnotize him to reveal all these secrets.

Anonymous said...

Hard to believe, but these are nothing but the truth.

Chichi said...

Hmnnnnn... games that men play. It's all over the place and we are always the victim