I'm not really sure what she's trying to say, but I guess she has moved on. I found this on her blog this morning and for the first time since 2014 when she started to use her maiden name, Ebhodaghe, Pastor Anita broke the silence.
See what she just uploaded on her blog's home page. I highlighted the 'area of concentration' in case you don't want to read everything.
"It is my desire to reach out and inspire you especially if you feel vulnerable and in need of a change. I hope to inspire you to believe in yourself no matter the circumstances. I want to help you recreate your life going forward, so you can live beautifully. I have been through this journey of rediscovery and nothing is as beautiful as realising one’s uniqueness as I have done. Life is a precious however, your life can go through different seasons: winter, spring, summer or autumn. Life can hit you with financial loss, disappointments, death of a loved one, a broken relationship, loss of a job, a divorce, being falsely accused or being a victim of crime. These can shatter you to pieces but you can do something about it.
Life is a gift from God and you deserve to be happy irrespective of your age, race, gender, background or financial situation. I urge you to appreciate the gift you are, you are precious and valuable. Never lose sight of who you are; begin to create new visions and dreams for your life. Let nothing stop you from growing every day. My story is not one of a bed of roses, far from it but I had a choice to either beat myself over the regret of tolerating abuse for so long or put a stop to the abuse and recreate my life for the best. My journey was not in vain. I can now help others realise that their situation does not define them.
In order to move on with life, I have come to realise that nothing...
is permanent. Your problem is not permanent; you can do something to change it by ensuring you do not allow the situation or the person make your life miserable. Pain is a fact of life, it is inevitable but suffering is optional. You can do something to change the pain by over looking every obstacle, take control as a force of nature to grow and expand. Do what is necessary now to use the gift God has given you to unleash your purpose.
My message to all is simple: you have value therefore discover your potential. Do not allow anybody destroy you or rob you of living a joyful life. Your life is not wasted; you have just started a different phase of life. God will show you how to use your testimony to help others and restore their lives to exuberance. Please join me to encourage and inspire others. You have a story to tell, you can contribute and participate in the dialogues here. Let us all learn from one another’s experience and reach others with the gift of love and kindness. Share your experience by emailing me or making a comment. Celebrate your uniqueness because there is only one of you.She's one good writer, I must give her that! Mehn, are you not tempted to send her a mail. Lols. Alright, here's the bottomline, "Inspire and encourage others?! In what what if I may ask?" Divorce? or Abuse?
12 comments:
Anita's silence worth more than thousand words. It avail her the opportunity to pour her mind out with no hold bar; say it the way it is without sentiment
Women....dey always try 2 put d blame on d man. Y is she writing a book, now she can gain popularity nd make her own money using her failed marriage as an example, cos men don't talk does nt mean we are always d demon.
Hmmm. Abuse is an ambiguous word. It could've been mental, physical, sexual, verbal, psychological etc. It is well. Whichever one, God is the healer
Ok, we don hear. You won help other people. Approved!!
And Tessy how does this relate to the divorce saga
You suffered abuse? Is she saying Pastor Chris abuse her or what? Pls let her go straigth to the point rather than just...
Alright ma, are you saying your marriage has ended?
@anonymous, you're a very lazy reader. I'm sure you ddnt read the whole thing. cant u see how Tessy bold the words she said that related to the divorce saga. Anita won't want to say anymore than that cos anything she said will be used against her during the divorce
marriage ends cos of pride not even money now. Pastor Chris we know doesn't have pride, but we can't say the same thing for this woman. Sorry to say
is she staying she want to help other people on how to divorce their husband if he misbehave or help them heal their homes? We need clearity pastor anita
Tessy, pls approve comment today oooooo. I'm the 1st to comment today and I've not seen my comment
It's unfortunate that women are their own worst enemies. I expect women to stand by her even in If silently. A divorced woman who have learnt her lessons n not consumed with bitterness is in a good position to teach married wives How to keep their homes. Women don't sneer at this woman's efforts to pick up the pieces of her life and help others in the process.
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