Dear Diary With Tessy Nkennor: Ladies, You Are The Reason Why He Demand for Sex! Yes, You're The One!!!

The title of this post would have being something like, "3 Unbelievable Signs Ladies Give To Invite Guys for Sex, Unknowingly!", but that would have being too blunt isn't it? Well, let's forget the title, it's just a title. What you're about to read is 'a must read' for all single ladies who are into a relationship where sex is becoming the order of the day and I'm going to be very frank with you.

Ladies, except if you don't want to be honest with yourself, you will always see the signs that the guy you are dating will soon ask for sex or will soon have the desire to sleep with you. As a girl, we will always have the instinct about his motive or have what is called the 'sixth sense of a woman'.

Guys can't just wake up one day and ask for sex because having sex takes proper planning. It was not the day he asked you for sex that the thought of it crossed his mind. It had been on his mind long before that day. He did not ask you to sleep with him until now because he want to make sure the timing was right.

So, young lady, guys don't just force sex on you without thinking it through and we ladies has the gift to read between the lines long before he makes the first move except if we don't want to be honest with ourselves.

So please tell some ladies to stop saying they don't know how it happened.

They do! In fact, they actually lead the guy on. Not literally invite him for sex, but encourage him to ask them for sex. You actually prompted him because before a guy can open his mouth to ask you for sex or show you his desire to have sex with you he must have seen a prompter coming from you. Without this prompter he will refrain himself before asking for sex, but the truth is, you ladies give the prompter without knowing it.

Yes, we always...
give them the wrong impression thinking we are just being ourselves. Otherwise why would a guy who was afraid you will turn him down or you may not find him attractive, when he ask you out, suddenly demand for sex? What give him the confidence or what give him that impression that you will even want to have sex in the first place? The signs you showed of course!!!

Listen girl, any guy that sees any of these prompters will see you as a girl who want to have sex but doesn't know how to ask or go about it. Once they notice these signs, they believe you won't mind if they ask you for sex so that's why he believes you might love to have sex with him if he suggest it. Meanwhile sex was the last thing on your mind.

The first prompter you showed him was BODY CONTACT. I don't care how you make the body contact or why, but the truth is guys don't take such thing for granted. They read meaning into the way you hug them, the way you embrace them or the way you let them put their hands around your shoulder and your waist. Some girls will even allow him to kiss her on the forehead, chin or the back of their hands. Some 'wake-up' girls will even sit on their laps or let him carry her at the pool. In fact, some even dance 'bumper-to-bumper' type of dance where the guy will have a good feel of her butt on his manhood. As harmless as it may seem, what was running through your mind was entirely different from what was on his mind.

To you, you are thinking " he's cool and social"... "this guy is caring and nice"... "he's just being friendly and charming." But to him, he might be thinking, "ha, her skin is soft and succulent... "men, I love the feel of her body, I need to feel her more"... "when we hugged, her boobs felt full and alive..." "her body is on the way and she might not know how to ask for it..." "she might want me as much as I want her..." "if she can allow me to touch her that way then she won't have problem touching her here..."

The ones ladies do regularly is when they hug a guy. They throw themselves completely at him. Some walked into his embrace with everything they've got. May I suggest that if you must hug a guy, let it be a bear hug because guys can't mistaken the feel of your boobs on their body. They will never show it on their face that they feel your breast presses against their body when you hugged them and am sure you are the type that doesn't see anything wrong in this, but trust me, you just sent the first prompter. This one is not saying you are available. It's saying this is what you are missing. It's saying have a feel of what I have. It awaken a desire in his subconscious mind that he can enjoy more of the brief coldness and the softness of your breast. And each time you allow a body contact, he feels the awakened desire to do something to get another body contact. Trust me, our skin is very succulent in nature and guys love to feel them up.

Touching your skin is one prompter, but seeing what should be covered is entirely an invitation. Oh, guys don't care why you dress the way you dress, they are just after how much they can see from the way you dress. There are very sensitive part of your body that was not created to see the daylight. Something like your breasts and their cleavage, your belly button, your entire back, your bombom, your waist, your thighs or anything above your knees.

Unlike us, guys are more turned on by what they see than what they hear. To you, you might be thinking, "I wear what makes me feel comfortable... what's wrong in wearing a short skirt... why would he feel like touching my boobs because I wear something tight..." You are wrong. To him, he's thinking, "Mehn, her thighs are spotless... how will it feel if I just have a feel... mehn she has a big boobs... if it's like this on the outside how will it look like under the dress... hmn, this is serious o... see how it is bouncing... how I wish I can just grab it..."

All these thoughts will give him the willpower to go out of his way to do anything for you just to have a nice feel of what he has seen briefly and partly and don't think it will make him think marriage. No, marriage is a long process. It will make him think how he can touch it right now. He will work hard on your heart to a point where you won't have problem showing him everything you've been covering.

To be continued... That's all we have time for today!!!

You've been reading Dear Diary With Tessy Nkennor. Please join us again on Thursday for the concluding part of Dear Ladies, You Are The Reason Why He Demand for Sex! It's Hard to Believe!!!