Dear Ladies, am so tired of some girls asking me questions on how to know if a guy really loves them or just want to get into their pants and each time they ask me this question they always look as if their lives depend on it, but in all honesty this is the most simplest question I've ever seen on the planet earth as the answer is always staring at you in the face.
Then it left me wondering that if these ladies are not smart enough to find answer to this simple relationship question how will they answer the more difficult and challenging ones?
To be candid, all these ladies who asked me these questions already know the answer deep within them or how to go about getting the answer, but they want a sex educator to give them A 101 Ways To Spot a Womanizer. Well that's not me because there is only but one surest way to spot a womanizer and am not going to waste my time on it.
My dear, if you really and truly wish to determine a player and a serious guy...
, REFUSE BOTH OF THEM SEX out-rightly and without apology until marriage and you will get your answers!!!
Trust me, darling, there's absolutely no other way to determine this except by zipping up!!!
In case you've already had sexual experience with that guy, stop it right away if you really want to get answer to your questions. They day you stop giving him sex, he will start making mistakes. He will start being himself and without being told he will reveal his true intentions towards you.
So stop asking us questions on how to know a guy who truly loves you or just want to get into your pants. And if you are type of girl who want sex more than he does or believe you cannot do without him, please and please, stop wasting our precious time by asking us this type of question because you may never know the truth until you are able to put your emotions under control.
It's a serious waste of time when, as a sex educator, you finish talking to a group of serious minded people and during question and answer session a girl stood up and ask you how she can know a God-fearing man. What?! Are you a Learner?!
My response is very simple and straightforward: ARE YOU STILL A VIRGIN? If you are a virgin, then try as much as possible to keep your virginity and you will soon find out if your boyfriend is a God-fearing man or God-scaring man. If you are not a virgin, the question is also simple: is the guy you are dating right now responsible for your lack of it? If yes, then he is a suspect. Stop having sex with him right away and you will soon find a God-fearing man. If he is not responsible for your lack of virginity, then tell him you are no longer a virgin, tell him the last time you had sex and tell him when next you wish to have sex again. Then sit back and watch to see if he is a player or a God-fearing man.
My name is Tessy Nkennor and I'm not a well of knowledge! I'm just trying to make a difference.
Don't miss tomorrow's Relationship Affairs with Lanre Kehinde. Oh my God, this guy is so loaded!!!
Then it left me wondering that if these ladies are not smart enough to find answer to this simple relationship question how will they answer the more difficult and challenging ones?
To be candid, all these ladies who asked me these questions already know the answer deep within them or how to go about getting the answer, but they want a sex educator to give them A 101 Ways To Spot a Womanizer. Well that's not me because there is only but one surest way to spot a womanizer and am not going to waste my time on it.
My dear, if you really and truly wish to determine a player and a serious guy...
, REFUSE BOTH OF THEM SEX out-rightly and without apology until marriage and you will get your answers!!!
Trust me, darling, there's absolutely no other way to determine this except by zipping up!!!
In case you've already had sexual experience with that guy, stop it right away if you really want to get answer to your questions. They day you stop giving him sex, he will start making mistakes. He will start being himself and without being told he will reveal his true intentions towards you.
So stop asking us questions on how to know a guy who truly loves you or just want to get into your pants. And if you are type of girl who want sex more than he does or believe you cannot do without him, please and please, stop wasting our precious time by asking us this type of question because you may never know the truth until you are able to put your emotions under control.
It's a serious waste of time when, as a sex educator, you finish talking to a group of serious minded people and during question and answer session a girl stood up and ask you how she can know a God-fearing man. What?! Are you a Learner?!
My response is very simple and straightforward: ARE YOU STILL A VIRGIN? If you are a virgin, then try as much as possible to keep your virginity and you will soon find out if your boyfriend is a God-fearing man or God-scaring man. If you are not a virgin, the question is also simple: is the guy you are dating right now responsible for your lack of it? If yes, then he is a suspect. Stop having sex with him right away and you will soon find a God-fearing man. If he is not responsible for your lack of virginity, then tell him you are no longer a virgin, tell him the last time you had sex and tell him when next you wish to have sex again. Then sit back and watch to see if he is a player or a God-fearing man.
My name is Tessy Nkennor and I'm not a well of knowledge! I'm just trying to make a difference.
Don't miss tomorrow's Relationship Affairs with Lanre Kehinde. Oh my God, this guy is so loaded!!!
18 comments:
Wow, you said it all Tessy. You really really said it all. Thanks so much
I'm definitely going to print this for my sisters. They need to hear it directly from you.
Nice write up. I never know you're such a skilled sex educator. What does it take to invite you for a singles program
Can a womanizer really be spotted. I seriously doubt that?
hmnnnnnn... I don't usually read anything two times, but I read this your article three times. Can I copy it and send to my friends on whatsapp and BB? Pls let me know so that I won't violate your policy ma
GBAM!!! Guys are in serious trouble ooo. No sampling of girls agin!!!
I'm totally going to disagree with you Tessy, from the beginning to the end cos there are some guys who are well meaning and don't sleep around, yet want to have sex with the only girl they love. What is bad in that?
I'm a well meaning guy and I love my girlfriend so much, but you saying she should abstain from me is below you and your blog. That's why she ask me to visit your blog and read this rubbish article when I ask her for sex.
I demand you do a repost and let these girls understand that not all guys are womanizer. We still have well-meaning ones like me and if you don't I'm going to blacklist your blog! You have been warned!
I've been looking for a blog that will share gospel truth about sex and I seriously hope I, personally, will continue to see more of your post on this issue. I'm blessed. Tankk u
This is inspirational. You just offered a 1 million naira advice to us.
She who has ears let her hear what Tessy says to the churches
Lovely.
@danny007@gmail.com, you're wrong, completely wrong. Guys like you always claim you're well meaning guys and after you're through with the girl or maybe sex with the girl has become normal to you, you forget your well meaning inentions and set out in search for a new girl to become a well meaning guys to her.
To all the girls who are reading this blog, please don't listen to him cos many of them are out there looking for who to devor
Aunty Tessy, I'm scared. After reading your post, I know exactly what to do, but I also know what the result will be. He's going to leave me and I don't want to loose him. We've come a long way and I can't imagine life without him. Please help me.
Aunty Tessy, I'm scared. After reading your post, I know exactly what to do, but I also know what the result will be. He's going to leave me and I don't want to loose him. We've come a long way and I can't imagine life without him. Please help me.
I DON'T THINK IT'S ONLY BY AVOIDING SEX THAT YOU CAN USE TO DISCOVER A WOMANIZER. THERE ARE OTHER MEANS LIKE ASKING QUESTIONS, LOOKING OUT FOR HIM, FINDING OUT ABOUT HIS PAST. PLS THINK TOWARDS THIS AREA
Tessy, reading your post really opened my eyes. I'll send you a mail. I really need a urgent answer pls. It has to do with my relationship of 5 years and it's seriously giving me a nightmare.
you should just say you want to punish us, tessy. have you ever consider that some of these girls could be the one seducing us too. when they come to your house they dress to tell you they are available and when you make advances they will resist shylishly meanwhile it's what they really want.
I'm just saying.
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