Wednesday, 11 March 2015

See The Marital Question That Sent My WhatsApp Group Into A Frenzy!!!

I'm privileged to be on a Group on WhatsApp specially created for married women known as Virtuous Women where we shared marital related issues, things ladies are skeptical to share in public and it has been a wonderful experience I must confess.

Recently, a member of the group asked a very sensitive questions on behalf of a friend (a wife) who needed urgent help regarding her marriage (which has to do with her husband) and that cry for help sent the group into a frenzy. My phone started buzzing. Responses started pouring in.


I had to take permission from the Creator of the group to share that moment with my Readers. I want you to be blessed by this group. I want you to read other people's comment and share your own views. Please feel free to agree and disagree because that woman (whoever she is) needs an honest answer as soon as possible.


I promised the Creator of the group that I'm not going to re-type anything so am just going to post them as they occur!

Enjoy!


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8 comments:

Ayo Oluwadamisi said...

The 1st episode when u marry a selfish man. If he's an angry man he would hve ordered her to return the car.

wow, 1st to comment today.

Bidex said...

This is a very simple case of if you want peace (and I mean future peace) in ur marriage, abeg dash the car out. Don't even sell it. Sow it as seed n let him know u sow it out cos u want peace in ur family and wait for the result. If he did not feel bad for you after some days then u should know you hv married a...

If I talk now Tessy will not post my comment.

Toyosi said...

This is what usually gets me angry. Seriously. How will a man who bought 5 cars in his name. 5 cars in ur name and name alone. Are u a single man? And u even cease the car keys if ur wife offends u. Are u a god or what is he feeling like?

My dear don't sell that car for any reason. Let him do his worse!!! #LibrateOurWomen#

Soji Olumide said...

I think d problem is not the woman. The problem is the man. He needs a man like him to sit him down, pour ice cream on his head, call him by his native name and tell him he's a very selfish man for a husband!

nnenna okoli said...

Tessy, that's wat I was saying when I comment on ur blog post about women's day! I said we claimed our women are free, but no, their are lots of them surffering in the hands of their husband and they are tied to marital law that binds them to that one man who abuses them for the rest of their life. Now that's what I call slavery

Kingsley Okon said...

My humble advice for u, young woman, is first to stop listening to ur friends. This is ur marriage n u, as wife, is responsible for its success or failure.

2nd, sell the car if u really want my advice cos men, as u see us, we no dey forget things like this ooooo. And as long as d car is still driving in n out of his house, u r reminding him of ur sturborness.

Sell the car ASAP!!!

Anonymous said...

What is a car compare to making peace reign in ur home.

Kelechi98ee said...

Thank u star that ur husband even show reaction for u to see his displeasure. My husband will even laugh with you, joke with you, sleep with you, but wait until you hear of ur sturboness from ur in laws or a close friend.

Worst, he will bring it up in the future if argument arises and then u will know that he has been keeping it in his mind